- “Never make a permanent decision based on a temporary emotion.”
Why should I call him if he doesn’t call me? Why should I message him if he doesn’t message me? This kind of thinking often separates people from their special ones.
I want to ask: if a relationship is between two people, and both are happy together, understand each other, trust one another, and are loyal, how can one argument end everything?
Believe in your relationship. Talk to each other, air out all grievances, and put yourself in the other person’s shoes. Maybe then you’ll realize that the reason for your distance might not be valid, or the reason for your anger might not be true.
I’m not talking about cheaters or suggesting you call or message people who don’t deserve you. Stay away from toxic people. I’m talking about genuine relationships, the ones you miss all the time and can’t forget. If you are constantly thinking about someone, it’s better to talk to them. It will bring you clarity and help you decide what to do next.
When you communicate, you’ll understand your own thoughts and find peace in your life. Remember what’s important to you: the person or the words they said. If the relationship matters more, forget the words. If the words matter more, forget the relationship.
When two people separate, both are in pain, both suffer, and the relationship breaks for both. Never make life decisions based on others’ opinions because you know the person and understand them. Decide for yourself. Your decisions should be your own.
This was my personal experience of my life